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Orthodox Jewish singles follow the strict teachings of Orthodox Judaism. They believe that the Written and Oral Torahs contain the exact words of God without input or influence from man. Therefore, they are of divine origin and must be followed exactly. Orthodox Jewish singles observe and follow God’s commandments in every aspect of their lives. The core beliefs of Orthodox Jews follow Rabbi Moshe ben Maimon (1135-1204), also known as RaMBaM or Maimonides, 13 Principles of Faith. It is very important for Orthodox Jewish singles to find a partner within their faith. A strict Orthodox Jewish single that marries outside of their faith is seen as completely rejecting their religion.
Orthodox Jews are divided into two groups - Modern Orthodox and Ultra-Orthodox. Modern Orthodox beliefs are a bit more liberal and Zionist. Although they strictly observe halakhah (Jewish Law), they still integrate into modern society. Ultra-Orthodox, which includes several sects, is very critical of modern society and is not open to change. For example, members of the Hasidic sect live separately from modern society, dress distinctively and spend their lives dedicated to the strict observance of Jewish Law. Orthodox Jewish singles within the Hasidic sect usually meet their spouse through a matchmaker. This process is called a sidduch. Before marriage their must be mutual consent of the couple and of the parents.Orthodox Jewish singles must abide faithfully to God’s commandments and Jewish Law in every aspect of their lives. Social behavior, dress, food, prayer, sex, family, holidays, the Sabbath, work and relaxation, throughout the entire day are governed by their faith. For those Orthodox Jewish singles hoping to find other singles that share their core beliefs outside of their own community, the internet offers many options. Online Orthodox Jewish matchmakers such as “Frumdate” consults with an Orthodox Jewish Rabbi and maintains Orthodox values. Their purpose is to help Orthodox Jewish singles find their soul mates so they can marry and build a Jewish home. “SawYouAtSinai”, another site for Orthodox Jewish singles, has been endorsed by nine Orthodox Rabbis who were concerned with the difficulty Orthodox Jewish singles have in finding suitable mates. This site combines the internet with real matchmakers. Although Orthodox Jewish singles follow many strict beliefs, most are successful in finding their Besheret, or soul mate. Together, they build a life and family that continue to follow the Orthodox traditions. |
